NOT IN THE FLESH, BUT IN THE SPIRIT!
--> 5 th Sunday of Lent (A) April 6, 2014 NOT IN THE FLESH, BUT IN THE SPIRIT! Mourning the death of someone you love and feel very close to, is most difficult. Presiding over funeral services of the same person is even more trying. But it can also be difficult to find the right words to say in the presence of family who has just suddenly lost a loved one. People, on occasions like these, can be overeager and overzealous to help. In their desire to make the bereaved feel better, they thoughtlessly and cluelessly say words like “Don’t be too sad. It is God’s will. Just accept it and you will feel better.” In their desire to sound consoling and empathic, they also say: “I know exactly how you feel. But God has a plan for you.” Some others would mutter something like: “Don’t be upset. He or she is in a much better place now.” They are nice-sounding words, but the times I have gone through mourning myself, I was angry with God...